About

I build systems that work for the people inside them, especially the people most often left out.

Yasmin A Darling, a mixed race woman with long dark curly hair, wearing a black roll neck, standing in front of green foliage and looking directly at the camera.

Yasmin A Darling. A mixed race, disabled and neurodivergent woman, late diagnosed, and a parent carer. Thirty one years across education, children's rights, disability rights and community building.

Positionality, stated plainly

As founder of this pedagogy, I can make the position statement that I have created this as a mixed race, disabled and neurodivergent single parent carer from London.

Naming where you are standing is part of the work rather than an aside to it. It is one of the twenty five principles of The Freedom Approach for exactly that reason.

I have navigated the systems I now work to change. That is not background context. It is the centre of my practice.

Some of this record sits under earlier professional names. Awards, Ofsted paperwork and published work from the Hackney years appear as Maisie Collin, Maisie Khouani or May Angelica Collin. Same person, same work.

The career record

Thirty one years, in order.

Before 2006. Where it started, from underneath
Residential social work with highly traumatised children and young people, in children's homes, young offender institutions and educational settings. Long term support for two young women with complex chronic neurological and physical conditions in supported living in Islington. Work in a contact centre, supervising contact in child protection cases. This is where I learned what a system feels like from underneath, and it is the reason I have never been able to write a policy that ignores the room it lands in.
2006 to 2008. Service Manager and Senior Children's Rights Officer, Action for Children
Founded and managed the first children's rights and participation service of its kind. Advocacy for young people in court, complaints handled to stage three and the ombudsman, six staff and the budgets. Trustee of Children's Rights Officers and Advocates over the same period.
2007. Step Inside Their Shoes
A national youth consultation on gun, knife and gang crime. The idea was mine and I wrote the consultation paper. It became the largest consultation of its kind to that date. The charity carried it to national government, where it fed into the legislation and the action plan that followed, and it became the launch piece for their rebrand from NCH to Action for Children, the biggest transition in the organisation's history. I have a letter from Gordon Brown about it. When they took it to Downing Street I had been hit by a car, and I was in hospital and then a wheelchair for two years.
2008 to 2010. Challenge and Support Manager, London Borough of Camden
Then I went and delivered the policy myself. Camden's first Challenge and Support service, implementing the Youth Taskforce Action Plan and the Youth Crime Action Plan with eight to eighteen year olds and their families, redesigned alongside central government. Idea, to legislation, to delivery, in four years. It is the reason I do not design anything I would not have to run.
2010. Youth Participation Consultant, London Borough of Wandsworth
Youth participation policy and delivery across housing, sport and leisure, asylum seekers, care leavers, children's services, parks, disabled children, arts, facilities, community planning and teenage pregnancy.
2010 to 2011. Director, Three Corners Trust
All financial and contractual negotiation, budgeting, fundraising and bids, and a five year business plan written and delivered. In Clerkenwell, funding raised from Sport England, EC1 New Deal for Communities, Islington, London Basketball and Nike to build a multi use basketball pitch with free coaching and career routes.
2012 to 2013. Trustee, then consultant, Each One Teach One Charitable Trust
Founding board of the umbrella charity set up by Ben Drew, known as Plan B, to tackle the root causes behind the August 2011 London riots. I then came back as its consultant to design and run the youth advisory board and the youth projects underneath it, so that the young people the charity was arguing about were the ones setting its direction.
Alongside it. Ambassador, Centrepoint
The national youth homelessness charity. Speaking and advocacy on what happens to young people when housing, care and education all withdraw at the same time.
2013 to 2021. Founder and Director, Maisie Poppins Ltd, Hackney
Outstanding and multi award winning home childcare and forest school, which grew into a holistic nursery and preschool in London Fields. Over thirty staff and up to seventy two children a day, including throughout the pandemic as a keyworker setting. Led on learning and development, ethos, pedagogy and curriculum. Sold in November 2021.
What that setting did differently
The first childminding setting in the UK to be certified by the Living Wage Foundation, and the first to run forest school, weekly in London Fields park, after which the borough asked it to train other local nurseries and childminders. Eight apprenticeships offered in 2020 alone, two of them supporting professionals with additional needs, on an apprenticeship model and policy co-created with the London Borough of Hackney which the council has kept. Menus rebuilt with parents around the cultures and ethnicities of the children in the room. Men actively welcomed into a workforce that rarely has them. Assistants paid well above the apprentice rate, five weeks of annual leave, paid sick leave, permanent contracts and the London Living Wage, and staff who then stayed for years.
And the parts that were never on an inspection form
An annual charity fundraiser, alternating a local cause and an international one. A Mother's Day breakfast and a Father's Day breakfast. An Easter egg hunt, a bonfire night party, a summer picnic at Coram's Fields, an alumni reunion, and a photo book made for every family every year. Intergenerational arts projects between our preschoolers and people in the community living with terminal illness, made together inside the hospice. And one struggling childminder mentored at a time, rolling, unpaid, for years.
The part that was hard
Gentrification moved us twice in a single year, with all the children, while a third move was already coming. I took it to Westminster Briefing in 2016 and said it out loud, because it was not happening only to us and nobody was counting it.
2021 to now. Yasmin A Darling Consultancy Ltd
Holistic education consultant and changemaker, specialising in autism, early years, and equality, equity and agency. Working systemically to shift inequality in its many guises.
Alongside it. Founder and Director, Neuroverse Community CIC
Community learning, drama and LAMDA, and wellbeing provision for disabled and neurodivergent young people and their parent carers. Run voluntarily and unpaid throughout.
I do not soften what needs to be said, and I do not do compliance theatre.
Yasmin A Darling

Study

Completing clinical training as a child and adolescent psychotherapist.

In training rather than qualified. Before that, a Postgraduate Certificate in the Education and Teaching of Individuals with Autism at Sheffield Hallam University with the National Autistic Society, awarded at Distinction and supervised by Dr Luke Beardon. A Postgraduate Diploma in Psychoanalytic Observational Studies, working with children, young people and families, awarded at Merit. And a BA Honours in English Literature and Theatre Studies from the University of North London, now London Metropolitan University.

“Your MeMap and neurodictionary were excellent and were a real strength of your work. We wish you every success with piloting these. You referenced well and this was great to see as it really helped situate and demonstrate how you know what you know. We both thoroughly enjoyed your presentation and hope you are able to take this forward.”
Assessment feedback on the Postgraduate Certificate in Autism, from Professor Caroline Lear and Dr Luke Beardon, Sheffield Hallam University, awarded at Distinction

Alongside those, the practical ones: LAMDA Level 8, Forest School Programme Leadership, Solihull Approach training including the two day Foundation course, Parenting Group Facilitator and Train the Trainer (the programme now called Togetherness), a Level 3 Diploma in the Children and Young People's Workforce, ten months of Ofsted inspector training with Tribal, a Total Respect trainer qualification, and a Holistic Massage Therapist qualification for babies and adults through the International Therapy Examination Council in 2010. Alongside safeguarding to Level 3, paediatric first aid, and an enhanced DBS check with a barred list check carried out independently.

Standing and service

Former SENCO

Special educational needs coordinator, in practice rather than in theory.

Ambassador, Centrepoint

The national youth homelessness charity.

Trained as an Ofsted inspector

Applied successfully to Tribal and completed ten months of inspector training and shadow inspections. It is why a mock inspection from me is not guesswork.

Total Respect trainer

Qualified, then commissioned as a lead trainer by a social work agency, training professionals to work with children and young people as rights holders.

Founder, National Autism Support

A support group I founded and ran, which grew past 350 members. I left it, and leaving was not easy. It is still one of the things I am proudest of building.

Trustee, PDA Society

2017 to 2018.

Trustee, Each One Teach One

2012 to 2013.

Trustee, Children's Rights Officers and Advocates

2006 to 2007. The national professional body for children's rights practitioners in UK local authorities.

Judge, Soil Association

Invited to judge their early years and baby food awards, after winning Food for Life.

Founding member, East End Trades Guild

Including campaign work on fair rents for small businesses and traders in east London.

Speaker, The Parliamentary Review and Westminster Briefing

Westminster Briefing in 2016, on the issues facing childminders and what would actually change them.

A letter from Gordon Brown

In response to Step Inside Their Shoes, after it reached Downing Street.

Recognition

Awards, worded as they stand.

Purple Pioneer, Scope Awards 2026

Won. A national disability equality award recognising a disabled public figure who has brought about positive change, judged on impact, creativity, diversity, inclusion and reach. Presented on 30 April 2026, and confirmed in writing by Scope's Interim Chief Executive.

National Arts and Cultural Education Awards 2026

Shortlisted for the Mighty Roots Award, run by Curious Minds, from more than 250 submissions across ten categories. Ceremony 21 October 2026.

Nursery World Awards 2014

Newcomer of the Year, joint winner. Also shortlisted for Childminder of the Year in 2014 and again in 2016.

Ofsted Outstanding, twice

2012/13 and 2013/14, under the framework in place at that time. The first childminding setting in Hackney rated Outstanding in all areas at both its first and its second inspection.

Food for Life, Soil Association

Won in 2016. The first and only childminder in the UK ever to hold it. The nursery groups that hold it are corporate operations with an infrastructure behind them. This was one person. The Soil Association then invited me to judge their awards.

Hackney

Sugar Smart founding signatory in 2017. Hackney Apprentice Employer Quality Award. Outstanding Contribution Award from the Hackney Education Trust. Ladder for London Award.

Reach

Built by writing honestly, not by advertising.

9,400

Followers of the Neuroverse Community page on Facebook.

16,400

People reached by a single post there.

3,384

Instagram, at yasmindarlingconsultancy.

1,600

LinkedIn, approximately.

No advertising, no marketing budget, no agency. Mostly just writing plainly about what is actually happening to disabled and neurodivergent families, and finding out how many people recognised it.

Lineage

My great grandfather was the modernist architect Edwin Maxwell Fry, reached through my grandmother Ann Fry. He built for light and air for ordinary people. I have taken the same principle and moved it from buildings to systems.

Food

The first and only childminder in the UK ever to hold the Food for Life award.

Won from the Soil Association in 2016, and then they asked me to judge their awards. The other holders are nursery groups, which are corporate operations with a whole infrastructure behind them. This was one person, working from home. It came out of wanting children involved in every part of food rather than handed it, so that they build a good relationship with eating from the start.

Behind it sat a rolling three week menu rewritten several times a year, seasonal menus written with a nutritionist, and a catering mark application done properly. Menus were built with parents, around the cultures and ethnicities of the children actually in the room. Children came to us with ARFID and other eating difficulties and were never pressured, only worked with, alongside their family and whoever else was involved.

Founding signatory of Sugar Smart Hackney in 2017, and the borough's first early years Sugar Smart ambassador.

A whole sea bream on a wooden board, surrounded by raw prawns, scallops, green olives, lime wedges and a large pile of fresh samphire.
Fish, whole, with samphire. Children saw the food before it was cooked, not after.
A bowl of rice topped with autumn chicken and vegetable stew, ringed by pumpkins, green apples, oranges, lemons, tomatoes, garlic and curly kale.
Autumn chicken and vegetable stew, and everything that went into it.
An Indian spice tin from above, seven compartments holding turmeric, cardamom pods, cinnamon bark, black peppercorns, ground cumin and two ground spice blends, each with its own spoon.
New menu means new spice tin.
Two packs of smoked salmon beside slices of dark wholemeal bread and a slab of butter in a stoneware bowl, all on a wooden board.
Breakfast built around omega 3 for brain development and whole grains for long lasting energy. The one to three year olds learned to spread the butter themselves.
Scrambled egg on a round wooden board with a fan of wholemeal toast fingers, a bowl of blueberries, a bowl of cucumber slices and a bowl of carrot batons.
Spring dinner for muddy tired children who had been outside all day.
A child pressing an aloo tikki patty into a plate of golden breadcrumbs, next to two plates of finished patties ready for cooking.
Aloo tikki for Diwali, made by the children. Menus were built around the cultures of the children actually in the room.
A week of fruit and vegetables laid out on a table: cauliflower, savoy cabbage, pak choi, aubergines, courgettes, beansprouts, broccoli, apples, bananas, a pineapple, satsumas, a melon, green beans and new potatoes.
This week's fruit and veg. Get in there, children.
Bowls of fruit and vegetables for a handling session: a pineapple, mangoes, grapes, a melon, pears, sugar snap peas, peppers, tomatoes, carrots, parsnips, broccoli and new potatoes.
Fresh is best. A fruit and veg explore session, for little hands.
An organic delivery unpacked: a bowl of curly kale, whole milk and yoghurt from a farm dairy, free range eggs, salmon fillets, chicken, mince, cauliflower, peppers, carrots, bananas and a cabbage.
Road testing a new supplier for the children's rolling organic menus.
Butter and flour rubbed together in a white mixing bowl, next to a tray of pastry alongside free range eggs, an onion and a pumpkin.
Pastry from scratch. Nothing arrived in a packet if it did not have to.
A party table on a purple cloth: a plate of biscuits iced by children, a bowl of grapes and pears, a tray of apples and satsumas, tea lights, a toy teapot and hand made feather wands.
Winter party dinner. Lamb and vegetable tagine with wholemeal khobez, and biscuits the children iced themselves.

All from the Hackney years, 2016 and 2017.

Lived experience

I am not supporting disabled families from the outside. I am one of them.

I am mixed race, disabled and neurodivergent. Autistic and ADHD, with dyslexia, dyscalculia and dyspraxia alongside several long term health conditions. Late diagnosed, and a registered parent carer.

In our household we live at both ends of this at once. Articulate enough to be told we are managing, and disabled enough to be out of school. That is where Holding both comes from, and it is why I keep checking the work against the people it is hardest for.

Alongside the consultancy I keep working directly with disabled and neurodivergent young people and their parent carers, voluntarily, through Neuroverse Community CIC.

What I am building next

What is structural gets read as personal, and then the person is asked to fix it.

People like me are failed, and then told the failure is theirs. What is structural gets read as a character flaw. What is traumatic gets read as a trait. What is systemic gets treated one person at a time, in a room, as though the room were where any of it started.

I am completing my clinical training, and I intend to qualify. I do not intend to practise the way I have been taught. When I qualify I will build an ethical practice for people and families like mine, one that starts from what actually happened to them, and to the systems around them, rather than from what is assumed to be wrong inside them.

That is the same argument as everything else on this site, moved indoors. It is why the work is called systemic.

A note on family and parent consultancy

This strand of my work is paused while I complete my clinical training. It will come back, redesigned, as the ethical practice described above. It is a values led decision. The work I do with families needs a full professional framework behind it, and I will not offer it at a lower standard.